Rekindling Tamil Traditions: A Fun Handout to Teach Kids About Karthigai Theepam as I Celebrate with My Son
Discover how I rekindled Tamil traditions with my son by celebrating Karthigai Theepam and share a fun, kid-friendly handout to teach the festival!
Supanki Kalanadan
Researcher, lawyer
Canada
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It’s that time of year again when the air is filled with the glow of festivals, and traditions bring warmth to our homes. Among the many celebrations, one ancient Tamil festival stands out—Karthigai Theepam, the Tamil Festival of Lights, cherished for over 2,500 years.

As I watch my 6-year-old son get swept up in the magic of the Christmas season, I often feel the urge to spark that same enthusiasm for our Tamil traditions. Christmas is everywhere—trees, carols, cookies—but how could I make Karthigai Theepam, equally joyful and memorable for him?


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Every year during Karthigai Theepam, we have a tradition of cooking pongal together. My son’s favorite part? Adding the rice to the pot and joining me in making the traditional whistling sound as the food bubbles up—a moment of pure joy for both of us.

This year, we’re adding another layer to our festivities with our new parai drum! We got it last year, and we are learning to play it together as a family. It’s exciting to connect with an instrument that has been part of Tamil culture for centuries, and I can already imagine the rhythmic beats filling our home as we celebrate Karthigai Theepam.

Bringing Karthigai Theepam to his world

Two years ago, I started introducing Karthigai Theepam to my son in a fun and engaging way. We lit clay lamps, shared Tamil stories, sang songs, played family games, and made delicious traditional foods. But beyond the activities, I wanted him to understand the heart of the festival—its message of light, hope, and kindness.

When I asked my son why he loves Christmas, his answer was simple: “It’s fun! There’s so much to do!” His response inspired me to find ways to make Karthigai Theepam interactive and enjoyable, building traditions that resonate with him.

This year, we’re taking the celebration beyond our home and into his classroom. Inspired by the idea of sharing our culture, I organized a clay lamp painting activity for his classmates. Along with the lamps, I brought Tamil books and shared traditional food (e.g., Murukku) with everyone.

But how do you explain a festival with such a rich history to young children? I decided to create a simple, engaging handout that captures the essence of Karthigai Theepam in a way anyone can enjoy.

 

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Karthigai Theepam – Tamil Festival of Lights🪔🪔🪔 

Karthigai Theepam is a Tamil Festival of Lights celebrated for over 2,500 years! It takes place every year in November or December. 

People light oil lamps at home, in temples, and on hills to spread light, joy, and gratitude.

Why is it Celebrated?

  • Thanking Nature: This festival marks the end of the rainy season, a time to show gratitude to nature for its blessings.

  • Prayers for Safety: People pray for loved ones sailing through rough weather, wishing for their safe return home.

  • Spreading Kindness: It’s also a reminder to do good deeds and be kind to others.

How is it Celebrated?

  • Lamps Everywhere! 🪔 Families light lamps to brighten their homes and hearts.

  • People share food, stories, and have fun with family.

  • Large lamps are lit on hills as a  sign of togetherness and hope.

What Can You Do?

  • Paint a clay lamp.

  • Cook a Tamil dish with your family. 

  • Explore Tamil stories.

  • Be kind and share something with a friend.

The lamps bring light, hope, and love into the world. Let’s all try to be like a lamp—bright and helpful to everyone around us! Happy Karthigai Theepam! 🪔

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This year, Karthigai Theepam falls on the weekend of December 13-14, offering a wonderful opportunity to come together as a family. Whether you’re lighting lamps, playing parai music, or sharing stories, each small act connects us to our heritage and illuminates our homes with love.

Passing these traditions to my son has been a journey of rediscovery and joy. Watching him embrace them fills me with pride and hope for the future.

For those who want a comprehensive understanding of the origins of Karthigai Theepam, please refer to this article I wrote for adults: Yes, Ancient Tamils Celebrated the Festival of Lights. But, it’s not Diwali. Have you Heard of Karthigai Theepam?

Happy Karthigai Theepam! May your homes and hearts shine bright this season.


Supanki Kalanadan
Researcher, lawyer | @whatthepottu
Canada
I am a lawyer, mother and a passionate Thamizh enthusiast! I felt motivated to share ...
I am a lawyer, mother and a passionate Thamizh enthusiast! I felt motivated to share ...
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