When you’re born with a sibling or more, there tend to be times where you either want to hug them to death, or you want to choke them to death. If you’re the oldest sibling, you’re like me. Plenty of times, we’ve gotten blamed for their mistakes, have had to forgive their actions when it really sets us off, and, most importantly, we’re supposed to be their biggest role model. Being the oldest child in a Tamil family certainly has its perks and downfalls.